Surrender And Intimacy (Creating Closeness In Relationships) | BABH S2Ep133

EPISODE 133: Surrender And Intimacy (Creating Closeness In Relationships)

This week I’ve collated a few of my thoughts on surrendered intimacy, looking at the challenges and the joys when it comes to creating closeness in relationships.

Rather like the 7 Spiritual Questions I answered in Episode 129, you can think of these thoughts as a series of contemplations (or meditations even); there’s even a chime between each one!

While they’re focused on those intimate relationships, remember that life is full of relationship and there are many levels and many meanings to intimacy; it isn’t all about the sexual side of togetherness!

So, as you listen, consider how these may apply to all the relationships in your life.

We’ll be looking at:

Surrender & Intimacy
The Dance Of Masculine And Feminine
Rage & Tenderness
Creating Safety In The Midst Of Conflict
Fear Of Loss In Love
Remembering Your Lover Is Not Your Source
The Art Of Powerful Words
What Really Matters About Who You Surround Yourself With

Then stay tuned, click that play button and let’s dive in.

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NOTES:

Timestamps:

[0:00] Intro & Pre-amble
[2:12] Welcome & context
[7:05] Surrender & Intimacy
[9:03] The Dance Of Masculine And Feminine
[11:50] Rage & Tenderness
[12:55] Creating Safety In The Midst Of Conflict
[14:53] The 5 Day Relationship Challenge
[18:39] Fear Of Loss In Love?
[20:39] Remembering Your Lover Is Not Your Source
[25:03] The Art Of Powerful Words
[27:30] What Really Matters About Who You Surround Yourself With
[29:58] Outro

Remembering Your Lover Is Not Your Source (The Mantra):

See your lover in your minds eye, and say this out loud to them…

❤️ I don’t need anything from you - I am full as I am.
❤️ I would love to enjoy the dance of love and union with you but I definitely don’t need it.
❤️ I am fully filled with my Self.
❤️ I am full and offer you my fullness.
❤️ I am filled with life force and if you wish, I am ready and would love to share it with you.
❤️ If you do not want it, I am no less of a man/woman/person.
❤️ If you do not want it, then I am still full.
❤️ If you want it and receive it - I am still full and have lots to give and would enjoy you so much.
❤️ I see you and allow you to be who and where you are.
❤️ I am here and I am full.
❤️ I am me.
❤️ And being me, tapped directly into source, is enough.
❤️ I will meet you here when you are ready.
❤️ Nothing you do or don’t do makes me more or less of who I am.
❤️ I enjoy me as I am.
❤️ I enjoy me with you.
❤️ I enjoy me with me.
❤️ Our togetherness is the icing on the cake - not a necessity.
❤️ Even as I tell you I want you, I demand nothing of you.
❤️ I love you.
❤️ I love me.
❤️ I love us.
❤️ I am here and I am full.

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RELATED EPISODES

Episode 129 If you like these contemplations, check out my 7 Essential Spiritual Questions episode: LISTEN HERE 

Episode 130 Truth & Lies are very connected to the levels of intimacy you can experience, so check out this episode: LISTEN HERE 

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