Manipulation is rife in our society.
It’s not just the rise of narcissistic behaviour; it’s societal. Manipulation tactics have been normalised.
In other words, they’re not just used with conscious harmful intent (although clearly they are - more and more these days it seems) but they’re also used by well meaning people, who probably don't really know what they’re doing.
But the fact remains that manipulation causes a lot of heartache and psychological damage.
I’ve had first hand experience of intentional manipulation and was totally blindsided by it.
It was massively confusing, painful and humbling but out of it I’ve become super clear on all the manipulation tactics so they no longer have any power over me - and I want that for you too!
The really scary thing about manipulation tactics and how they’re designed is, we don't even realise we’re being manipulated.
So in this weeks episode I’m going to share 4 signs that you may be being manipulated, because realising it’s happening in the first step to becoming free from it’s power.
I’ll also share what you need to do - to get untangled from its web
and I’ll let you know how you can get your hands on something that will make you bulletproof to all 7 of the manipulation tactics, so you can never be manipulated again.
So hit that play button and let's jump in!
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1. You feel like you’re going crazy, but can’t put your finger on it - erosion of certainty and confidence, self-esteem. if you look back and think I used to be confident about this stuff…
2. Conversation - you go in clear, come out bamboozled and feeling like you’re the one with the issue. Eg. You try to talk about an issue but always find yourself steered to another topic.
3. You know something's off… but you still don't take action.
4. You’re afraid to do/say/be certain things (yourself) around somebody (may have crept up over time) - discernment, your fear vs their active discouragement of those things over time
There’s basically 2 ways out of a manipulative environment…
It needs to get bad! What I’ve seen: people get sectioned, lose a ton of money or everything, disconnected from family members, driven to drink or drugs, subject to violence etc.
You get Educated ( get Awareness), Get BULLETPROOF
The Awareness You Need Are:
You need to know what the tactics are
(those games, techniques and pieces of theatre).
There are 7 of them.
You need to know them all.
You need to know their true intentions.
What they are really up to
(as distinct from what they are saying).
You need to know the mechanics of each tactic.
How the game is played so you can spot it.
You need to know how to counter each tactic
so you can stay in YOU…
and not get drawn away from yourself; who you really are
and what you know to be true for you.
My new programme BULLETPROOF (Never Be Manipulated Again) will give you all four of these essential awarenesses:
Discover Exactly How To See Through All Those Abusive Mind-Games People Play On You; Become Immune To Their Tricks And Sneaky Tactics And Ensure You Can
NEVER BE MANIPULATED AGAIN.
If you've been triggered, manipulated and feel like you're weirdly controllable by someone - whether by a boss, a loved one, an ex, somebody who calls themselves a friend… then click through and GET BULLETPROOF today!
If you'd like some expert support as you undergo this process (especially if you're having a hard time with this kind of situation) then reach out and let me help you.
You can check out my session details and even set up a quick chat with me: Get in touch and let's have a chat about some 1:1 sessions with me.
Episode 82 If you've been or are being manipulated then chances are you're feeling invalidated. This episode will help: LISTEN HERE
Episode 93 Ideas around the responsibility for other people's emotions is the source of lots of 'middle men' LISTEN HERE
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