Are You In A Relationship Logjam? | BABH S1Ep78

EPISODE 78: Are You In A Relationship Logjam? 

Is there a relationship in your life where, over and over, you end up in the same story, the same fight, the same shutdown or stuck-ness? You find yourself going round in circles on the topic, making no progress?

If that's the case I'm guessing you want to feel empowered. You want something to change. You want to feel peace and connection in some form… certainly within yourself.

Perhaps you want clarity and resolution… or to truly let it go. You sense it’s there but for all your efforts, right now there’s a gap and you can’t reach it… but your heart really longs for it.

You deserve better. You can step into better. You can FEEL better. And that’s where today's episode can help.

I'll be looking at what it looks like to be at loggerheads and stuck in a relationship logjam and what it looks like have the heart move you in to flow. Plus I'll tell you all about The #LoggerHeadsToLoverHearts 5 Day Challenge and how you can join today!

So, click that play button and let's get to it!

The #LoggerHeadsToLoverHearts 5 Day Challenge

Are you at loggerheads with a partner, spouse, parent, child, sibling, friend or colleague?Join the challenge and free the logjam. Break the cycle of frustration and feel the relief of forward movement again!

Click the button below for 5 powerful days that will release your relational logjam:

Click Here To Find Out More & Get Instant Access

NOTES:

Episode Bullet Points:

• Loggerheads (The Frustration Of Going Round In Circles)
  

  Is there a relationship in your life where, over and over, you end up in the same story, the same fight, the same shutdown or stuck-ness? You find yourself going round in circles on the topic, making no progress?

  It makes you and the relationship feel stuck, which can be frustrating, heartbreaking, deflating and erodes the relationship, and ultimately your self-esteem. You and that other person might even find yourselves getting very reactive when it comes up, as you both feel powerless.

  You’re at loggerheads with them. The lack of movement breeds stagnation or repetitive flare ups which can even sink into a painful war of attrition. It creates a lot of pain, a lot of misunderstanding and it’s a lose lose for everyone.

  And perhaps there’s blame in the mix - perhaps of them, perhaps of you - probably a bit of both. Perhaps there’s feelings of guilt born out of that, which claws at your Soul. Perhaps it feels like a grudge?

  Maybe there’s a stand off that you’re calling a “necessary compromise”, but deep down the frustration simmers and puts a wedge in the intimacy or connection between you. It can show up as zoning out, general dissatisfaction and perhaps you’ve both become afraid to even talk about it - and yet it hangs there between you.

• Loverhearts (Activating Your Heart’s True Nature)
  

  You want to feel empowered. You want something to change. You want to feel peace and connection in some form… certainly within yourself. Perhaps you want clarity and resolution… or to truly let it go. You sense it’s there but for all your efforts, right now there’s a gap and you can’t reach it… but your heart really longs for it.

  Your body longs for that resting feeling when it can finally come out of alert status - the underlying stress is taking its toll and you know it. You long for inner alignment so that whatever action you take, whatever conversations you have, you know with no shadow of a doubt that you’ve stayed true to and honoured you… and through that you’re honouring them.

  Your heart IS a lover… loving is what it does best - it’s what it wants to do… But things have built up in there, creating a logjam that, until now, you’ve not been able to break through.

  This isn't just about intimate relationships, though it can be huge there. Your heart wants to be a lover, its true self, in ALL relationships.

  We can be at loggerheads with our parents, our kids, our siblings, friends and even colleagues! And of course, with ourselves. And in each case your heart feels the pain because it knows its true nature is flow and love… And true love, in any of these relationships, is a love that does NOT compromise, or feel unkind to YOU.

• The Challenge
  

  The #LoggerHeadsToLoverHearts 5 Day Challenge will invite you to face and challenge the status quo. It will give you the means to break through the logjam and activate your Lover-Heart. It will reveal that one small shift, that’s right for you and you can easily make. You’ll be empowered to break the cycle and experience the relief of movement that you long for.

  If you’re tired of feeling the frustration and powerlessness of going round in circles, then sign up now and join us on this journey into the freedom of flow.

Let Me Help You

If you're experience disempowerment in your life and would like to experience some powerful 1:1 work to support you in finding your harmony and feeling peaceful and free then get in touch and let's have a chat about some 1:1 sessions with me. 

NPA Mastery

If you are interested in finding out how you can work with people 1:1 in powerful resistance-free ways, then take a look at our NPA Mastery Programme.

RELATED EPISODES

Episode 74 Lays out the dualistic thinking and a new relational model in detail LISTEN HERE

Episode 60 Will give you more insight into polarity thinking LISTEN HERE

Episode 47 Explains the idea and perils of confirmation bias (with James Lavers) LISTEN HERE

RELATED LINKS:

For in-depth training on how to live the resistance-free way, find out more and jump in to The NPA Process: Advanced Training 

Click image to get The NPA Process Sheet for free 👆🏻

1:1 Sessions with Joel 👆🏻